Just recently, a story that touched the hearts of many made waves on the AITA subreddit. This story is from a Redditor named Maybeenobaby, who shares about her family of eight siblings, all younger than her, and how they have reached a point of extreme hardship.

I have a large number of siblings, and an even larger number of step siblings. With a total of eight kids under one roof, our household was always bustling with activity. So, let me introduce my family to you. I’m a 19-year-old woman, and on my mom’s side, I have three half-siblings who are 15, 11, and 9 years old. Additionally, I have four step-siblings who are 14, 12, 9, and 6 years old. Lastly, I have one full sister who is 6 years old. It’s quite a diverse and lively bunch!

Life has always had its ups and downs, but right now we find ourselves at the lowest point.
My mother and stepfather are about to embark on an extended journey, leaving us with the urgent task of finding suitable homes for all these children. Being the only one who’s over 18, I find myself in high demand to take care of things. I’m sorry, but I’m not interested.

I’d gotten an opportunity. It was such a generous offer from my grandma on my father’s side. She suggested that 6f and I move in with her, and she even offered to cover my college expenses. I couldn’t believe her kindness. It’s worth mentioning that she resides in a different state. I reached out to social services for guidance, and they assured me that I could relocate without any issues. This was because our parents willingly granted me guardianship of my younger sister, and as her full sibling, I am legally responsible for her.

I could only fully comprehend the rest if I remained in this state, as it would involve a complete foster care placement.

I’m sorry, but being compelled to remain in this place would completely ruin my prospects. I could definitely make it through, but I would be trapped in this dreadful place, struggling to make ends meet. My life feels so disconnected from reality. I made a choice that was clearly the best option. The social workers kindly made arrangements so that 6f and I didn’t have to awkwardly stand in front of them during the pickup. It’s clear that they are well aware of the reasons behind their placement in care.

I’ve been bombarded with constant texts and calls from the four of them who happen to own phones.
Some wanted help, and others just wanted to yell at me for leaving them. I understand that the system may not be ideal for them given their location and age, but I simply cannot bring myself to go through with it.

This is a crucial opportunity for me and 6f to finally experience real life. I am determined not to let it slip away, as I feel a deep sense of responsibility towards both of us. Am I in the wrong here? Grandma thinks I should have “done something” but won’t say what and wouldn’t let them into her house even if it were possible. The kids and my mom think I am not doing enough in this situation. The only person who doesn’t think worse of me is 6f, who says she “likes the quiet”, but obviously doesn’t know the full story.

Here are some of the comments people made about this entire situation.