When we post our lives online, we frequently expose ourselves to criticism. A young couple who enjoys sharing their photos faced backlash from people over their relationship.
However, their response to the negativity is admirable, offering a powerful reminder of standing firm in your beliefs.
The story of Matt and Brittany Montgomery is both typical and beautiful. They met, fell in love, and built a life together.
What sets them apart is their noticeable size difference. Brittany, who has struggled with acceptance for much of her life, had an insecure relationship with her parents, which often left her feeling drained.
These experiences impacted her confidence and self-image. As a plus-sized woman, she often encountered men who either pressured her to lose weight or fetishized her curves. These negative experiences pushed her to consider giving up on dating and love altogether.
But fate had other plans. In August 2020, she connected with Matt Montgomery on Facebook. Although their body types differed greatly, they found an emotional bond like never before.
Brittany admitted, “I was hesitant at first. In previous relationships, guys threatened to leave if I didn’t lose weight, which hurt my self-esteem. For a while, I even tried to change my appearance.”
But the couple remained confident in their love. Matt proposed on January 30, 2022, and they started planning their future together.
Despite fully accepting each other, the couple faces judgment from the outside world. Matt revealed, “People comment on Instagram, saying I’m not big or manly enough for her. I also notice people staring when we walk together.”
Although they face criticism from those who don’t understand their relationship, the couple remains deeply in love.
Matt, who had bad experiences with women of more conventional sizes in the past, feels that Brittany is his soulmate. He loves her as she is and is dedicated to her happiness. In a heartfelt post, he expressed, “You are deserving of love every single day. The way we look at each other proves that we are meant to be.”
His message shows that, despite negative comments, his love for Brittany goes beyond appearances, offering a great response to critics.
The couple hopes to challenge the stigma around ‘mixed-weight’ relationships. «I wish these relationships were more common,» Brittany said.
They welcomed their first child, Lakelyn, in March 2022 and the second child in September 2023. We wish them continued happiness!