Melvin Lubbers is 91 years old, and his wife Nancy is 87 years old. They met at a skating rink when Nancy was only 16 years old and have been by each other’s side ever since. Nancy wore a $35 dress she had purchased for the occasion when the couple married in a church in 1952.
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Anna, their youngest granddaughter, wanted to photograph her grandparents in their wedding gowns so that they could celebrate their 70th wedding anniversary together.
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Anna stated that her grandparents had very few wedding photographs. “At first, I thought it would be cute to photograph Grandma in her gown, and then my mother, Melissa, tracked down Grandpa’s army uniform so he could wear it.”
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And Nancy thought it was a fantastic idea, and she relished the opportunity to wear her wedding gown to commemorate the occasion. “We had a great time remembering our wedding day, and the photo session was a lot of fun,” the bride and groom said, gazing at each other in their wedding photos.
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The couple now lives in South Dakota, where they have 5 children, 12 grandchildren, and 21 great-grandchildren. The couple’s response to the question of what the key was to a prosperous and long marriage is as follows:
“You won’t always agree, and occasionally you’ll have a dispute; but, when you have one of them, you sit down and speak about it and come up with a solution; and after it’s settled, don’t bring it back up.”