Every relationship and marriage has its own dynamics. For some couples, the challenge lies in balancing how much they should share versus what they prefer to keep private. Some partners want to know every detail of their significant other’s day, while others like to keep a bit more to themselves. One woman recently shared how her husband insists on knowing every little thing about her day, and the impact that demand has had on their marriage.

On Reddit, she recounted: “My husband and I had a huge argument, and he demanded that I tell him EVERYTHING that happens in my day. I agreed immediately—honestly, he should’ve known that was too easy. He knows my personality.

A while ago, I used to share a lot about my day, but when he started making a fuss over things, I pulled back. So this time, I went all in. I told him every single detail, from the moment I woke up to walking to the bathroom, breathing, washing my hands, drying my hands—you get the idea.

I’ll give him credit; he lasted three days. Then he begged me to stop. He apologized a lot and asked for forgiveness while I kept it up. Eventually, we had a long talk, and now, when we discuss our day, he doesn’t make a big deal out of it anymore. He’s trying to improve, just like I am.»

She added some context: «He’s afraid I’ll suddenly leave him. His ex-wife of 21 years divorced him, and I met him shortly after that. We were friends for five years before dating. We often get into big arguments because of his insecurities, but we cool down and talk things through afterward. He never yells or insults me during fights, though. Instead, he’ll go to his best friend, who’s been married for over 40 years, come back, apologize, and start working on his issues. That’s why I stay with him—he’s committed to improving himself.

He used to be extremely jealous, but over time, he’s worked hard to change. It took a few months and some reminders, but he got there.

I don’t view it as toxic. I see it as quirks that we need to work on. He’s becoming a better version of himself. I’m grateful he has a friend who not only listens to his complaints but also gives him solid advice, often telling him when he’s wrong. I’ve met his friend and his wife—they have a wonderful marriage and give great advice when we’re both being stubborn. Despite everything, I know he truly loves me, and he’s proven that in countless ways.”