I’ll start by sharing a bit about myself. I’m 43 years old. Not a young girl, of course, but certainly not an old woman either. In my opinion, it’s the perfect age. I look good, I’m smart and educated, and I’ve managed to maintain a great figure at this age. I don’t have any kids or ex-husbands. I’m self-sufficient and free, living my life the way I want. I indulge in my whims without any hesitation. So, there’s a topic that’s come up for discussion.

I signed up on a dating site and chat with men there. I don’t see anything wrong with that; the internet is a major part of modern life, and it’s how we communicate these days. Sure, I could meet someone at an art exhibit or a theater, but I rarely attend those events. I also don’t go to nightclubs, as I consider those types of entertainment unsuitable for my age group.

However, I often encounter this: when you start discussing a topic with a man and express disagreement with his opinion, the response is often, “Why are you so bitter? Is it because you don’t have a man?”

For some reason, many men think that if a woman stands up for herself, doesn’t let anyone walk all over her, and can express her opinions directly, it must be due to her lack of a partner. This behavior isn’t just limited to dating sites; it happens in everyday life, at work, on the street, and even while waiting in line at the supermarket. The moment you assert your boundaries, you hear, “Is it because you don’t have a man that you’re angry?” It’s strange to me, but I encounter it quite often.

I suspect it all stems from outdated stereotypes. In the past, women were indeed seen as incomplete without a man or a family life. Times have changed, but many people still can’t shake off those old-fashioned beliefs. Yes, women used to hold back their desires because they feared society’s judgment. Now, we have complete freedom to act. Everyone lives for their own enjoyment, doing what makes them happy. No one worries about what others think anymore. So why is it that women are still often viewed as somehow lacking if they don’t have a partner?

Honestly, I find men with this mindset amusing. In my circle, there are many women of various ages, and they all have admirers. There are no women who are “starving” for attention, willing to settle for any option, especially when there are so many choices available. Many men are eager to meet, offering a chance to find the best match for some adult fun.

Of course, I also have regular meetings with men. Most of them are in their thirties, and I even had a 24-year-old admirer. They’re “juicy fruits,” and I see no reason to date older men. I’m surrounded by attention, I’m fit, and I feel fresh. So why do people associate my bad mood or attempts to “show my teeth” with not having a man? According to them, I’m angry because I’m unwanted.

Ladies, have you also experienced this kind of behavior? I’d love to know!